Raising a Gifted Kid: A Challenge in itself

Motherhood is a blessing, which makes us feel content and proud. Our pride takes its flight when a healthy baby is born. This little being takes our breath away with its first cry; a tiny life dependent on us for its needs. As proud parents, we vow to do everything in our power for this little angel. With every developmental milestone reached, we feel gratified of a job well done. As years pass by, our little angels get labeled as “Gifted and Talented” pulling us on top of the world, with some or little awareness of what this term implies.

Gifted and Talented

The field of gifted education has evolved since the 1920s and 30s. Research from mental inheritance, to development of Columbus Group in the 1980s, was quite a journey. More information can be found on NAGC website (“ Brief History of Gifted and Talented Education”, National Association for Gifted Children [NAGC],n.d.).

The buzz words in gifted education comprise of asynchronous development; and Jacob K. Javits Gifted and Talented Students Education Act of 2001.

Asynchronous Development

In 1980’s a group of individuals took an initiative to unfold the meaning of giftedness. These group of individuals comprising of parents, educators and psychologists met in Columbus, Ohio coining a new term for giftedness: asynchronous development.

“Giftedness is asynchronous development in which advanced cognitive abilities and heightened intensity combine to create inner experiences and awareness that are qualitatively different from the norm. This asynchrony increases with higher intellectual capacity. The uniqueness of the gifted renders them particularly vulnerable and requires modifications in parenting, teaching, and counseling in order for them to develop optimally” (The Columbus Group, 1991)

Jacob K. Javits Gifted and Talented Students Education Act of 2001

Jacob Javits Gifted and Talented Students Education Act focuses on building the ability of U.S.schools to meet educational needs of gifted and talented students. The Javits Act provides funding for research and development of reports such as National Excellence: A case for developing America’s talent. This report indicates evidence of our talented kids being offered less rigorous curriculum, and not being prepared for work or postsecondary education. National Excellence: A case for developing America’s talent, defines gifted and talented as “Children and youth with outstanding talent who perform or show the potential for performing at remarkably high levels of accomplishment when compared with others of their age, experience, or environment” (Ross,1993,p.11,para.3).

What does all this mean to us as a parent?

How can we contribute positively to the development of our gifted and talented kids?

Respect

Respect your child’s feelings and needs. Gifted kids are often ignored at home and school, as they demonstrate maturity compared to their peers. But as caregivers, we should not forget that they also are at a greater risk for social-emotional difficulties, if their needs are not met.

Get involved

Kids depend on their parents for being their first advocates. Become their advocate, and teach your child to advocate for themselves. If your child comes home bored, talk to the teacher, and if possible to the Principal. Get involved in the process of building the curriculum for the school. Educate yourself on TALENT Act, emphasizing the need of providing talented kids with challenging curriculum.

Ask for help

Remember you are not alone in this endeavor of raising a beautiful, talented, and challenging child. Talk to your pediatrician if you see signs of stress, depression, issues with peer relationships, and concerns with identity. SENG (Supporting Emotional Needs of the Gifted) is a great organization that helps connect gifted individuals of all races and culture. Center for Talent Development at Northwestern University offers challenging and enriching programs for gifted kids, along with seminars and conferences for parents.

Be Consistent

Gifted kids, smart and challenging; sweet and analytical, need consistent consequences for breaking rules too. Boredom at school could make them susceptible to breaking rules, and be challenging higher authorities. Be clear and consistent on your rules and expectations. (Bainbridge,2017)

We as caregivers and parents need to accept the fact that our gifted kids are different and unique; making it difficult for them to fit comfortably within their age group. By educating ourselves on giftedness; we not only can advocate for our kids; provide them with essential tools; but also give them the confidence to strive for success.

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